You Are Worth Waiting For

"You Are Worth Waiting For"

A Valentine Symposium 

February 14, 2012

Everyone is in aghast upon celebrating this month's highlight, the Valentine's Day. However, what is really the essence of celebrating this kind of occasion? This is not just about the romantic love for boyfriend-girlfriend relationships but it's also about the love for our self. We are precious and we do not just put it in our minds but have it acted out. We put it into life. Something that is being waited is valuable, great, and wonderful.  We are worth waiting for by the truth that Jesus Christ died for us. His amazing love let us live at this very moment. We are even worth dying! So, why waste the time on the wrong ones when you can live wonderfully and beautifully forever with the right one that God has given for you? God wants the best for us. All we just have to do is to TRUST and WAIT... ♥

Got to Renew Everything! :))

Well, it's been a very long time since I got to update and share new things and new ideas in my life. I've got a lot of revelations, chikas, news, stories and the like! I admit I've had tough times during the times that I've became so silent. I had painful experiences that have now become a memory. I've gone through moving on and forgetting things. I'ver been to sleepless nights and crying moments. Nevertheless, I am very proud to say that I HAVE PASSED THE SHAKENING MOMENTS OF MY LIFE. Yes, it was really painful and hard but as time goes by, I was healed. Really, "Time heals". I was surprised when I've got to read the posts on my blog and as I was assessing my feeling I said, "Oh yeah, I've gone through it! alas!". 

Now, I'm back and I am so back to the old me! The "Jessa" being happy, funny, lovely, optimistic, jocund, and pretty! Oh yeah! :D 

A mess becomes a MESSage, and a test becomes a TESTimony!

I am very happy now being with my family, true friends, crushes, and of course with GOD! Being with him is such an overwhelming feeling. I love how it feels when me and my friends talk about Him and share good things God have made for us. I love my life now and I'll be simultaneously loving it 'till the rest of my life when I know I have GOD on my side. He's always been there, 24 hours, all day and night, wherever I am, whatever I am going through, and whoever I have become. HE loves me for whoever I am, whatever I've become, and whoever I will be. I am glad to have God in my life. ALL IS WELL with him! By just believing that He is there, He would always be there. 


WE ARE BLESSED AND HIGLY FAVORED! GOD BLESS YOU!

A Wish for You and Me

Every so often we had misunderstandings, quarrels, and other bothering things happening in us. However, I hope that we still continue to hang on with each other. I know that there are times when giving up seemed to be next in line but let's just talk, and figure how to fix things out. 

It's quite normal in a relationship to face challenges but it's up with the people on how they will manage it. Let's not give chances for challenges to beat us in our way, let's face it with all our might, hand in hand, and with the grace of God.

Isn't it nice to hear that couple still stand together even the test of time? Good relationships in the world are not those with always happy happenings but those who have been molded  by challenges and trials but still they are together, not giving up. 

Let us also be sensitive enough of the feelings of our partner. If you think you're doing is not proper anymore or would create a doubt then better not do it because it might create a disaster.

Well, it's so okay in a relationship to still have in contact with other friends even with an opposite sex, but still be careful. In a couple, the relationship to lasts is to trust each other, so never ever try to break it.Well, there will be limitations in terms of the range of interaction and closeness.

The feeling of being in love is such a wonderful thing on earth! Let's not waste it by having so much doubts. But of course, in order to have  no doubt, show that you can be trusted. It's just a matter of give and take.

^.^

P.S

I wish that our connection from

each other would last. Let's

avoid bitterness and pain. 

Trustworthiness

Trust is very important in a relationship. When I say relationship, it comprises each and everyone of us. The unity and peacefulness signifies the trust that is imposed in that relationship. We get hurt and feel so much pain when we found out that somebody has lied to us or has broken the trust we have give to them. That is why it’s really very important to take care of that reliance because once it’s gone; it would be hard to gain it back.

                        I know for sure when I say “relationship”, some of you might be generally assumed about a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship but it’s not only about that. It’s a relationship of everybody whether a friend, family, country, lover, and a relationship of ourselves. It encompasses a connection between two or more people.

                        For sure a lot of us have experienced being betrayed, lied, took for granted by somebody who means a lot to us. It is indeed very painful. In a sudden, we got to look at the blank wall while reminiscing the joyful moments with that person. In a while, we come to think of why they ever hurt our feelings. We became transparent by what we feel and we ca also be just so naïve, showing only the façade of us to cover the hurt feelings we have inside. We suddenly became so disorganized and our mind is in chaos. When we’re depressed, some of us pour all the despair we’re going trough by eating that’s why we gained so much weight and became obese. Or we became too melancholic and forgot to eat and became anorexic. But kidding aside, even how much we want to forget the pain, it will just become an echoing voice that keeps coming back our mind and that we just can’t keep it from shutting up. We cry and became so regretful.

                        Even how much that person wants to claim our trust back, we just can’t give it back immediately. We may forgive them but it’s actually very different unlike before. We wanted to trust them but we just can’t help ourselves from having some doubt upon them. Trusting them again would be so hard to do. We don’t want to get hurt again that’s why we’ve became very careful.

                        If everyone knows how to keep a good relationship the there would be no quarrels, chaotic minds trembling and leveling up their pride. Life would be worth living, smiles would be very visible to everybody, and love can be felt really..