You Are Worth Waiting For

"You Are Worth Waiting For"

A Valentine Symposium 

February 14, 2012

Everyone is in aghast upon celebrating this month's highlight, the Valentine's Day. However, what is really the essence of celebrating this kind of occasion? This is not just about the romantic love for boyfriend-girlfriend relationships but it's also about the love for our self. We are precious and we do not just put it in our minds but have it acted out. We put it into life. Something that is being waited is valuable, great, and wonderful.  We are worth waiting for by the truth that Jesus Christ died for us. His amazing love let us live at this very moment. We are even worth dying! So, why waste the time on the wrong ones when you can live wonderfully and beautifully forever with the right one that God has given for you? God wants the best for us. All we just have to do is to TRUST and WAIT... ♥

A Wish for You and Me

Every so often we had misunderstandings, quarrels, and other bothering things happening in us. However, I hope that we still continue to hang on with each other. I know that there are times when giving up seemed to be next in line but let's just talk, and figure how to fix things out. 

It's quite normal in a relationship to face challenges but it's up with the people on how they will manage it. Let's not give chances for challenges to beat us in our way, let's face it with all our might, hand in hand, and with the grace of God.

Isn't it nice to hear that couple still stand together even the test of time? Good relationships in the world are not those with always happy happenings but those who have been molded  by challenges and trials but still they are together, not giving up. 

Let us also be sensitive enough of the feelings of our partner. If you think you're doing is not proper anymore or would create a doubt then better not do it because it might create a disaster.

Well, it's so okay in a relationship to still have in contact with other friends even with an opposite sex, but still be careful. In a couple, the relationship to lasts is to trust each other, so never ever try to break it.Well, there will be limitations in terms of the range of interaction and closeness.

The feeling of being in love is such a wonderful thing on earth! Let's not waste it by having so much doubts. But of course, in order to have  no doubt, show that you can be trusted. It's just a matter of give and take.

^.^

P.S

I wish that our connection from

each other would last. Let's

avoid bitterness and pain. 

Trustworthiness

Trust is very important in a relationship. When I say relationship, it comprises each and everyone of us. The unity and peacefulness signifies the trust that is imposed in that relationship. We get hurt and feel so much pain when we found out that somebody has lied to us or has broken the trust we have give to them. That is why it’s really very important to take care of that reliance because once it’s gone; it would be hard to gain it back.

                        I know for sure when I say “relationship”, some of you might be generally assumed about a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship but it’s not only about that. It’s a relationship of everybody whether a friend, family, country, lover, and a relationship of ourselves. It encompasses a connection between two or more people.

                        For sure a lot of us have experienced being betrayed, lied, took for granted by somebody who means a lot to us. It is indeed very painful. In a sudden, we got to look at the blank wall while reminiscing the joyful moments with that person. In a while, we come to think of why they ever hurt our feelings. We became transparent by what we feel and we ca also be just so naïve, showing only the façade of us to cover the hurt feelings we have inside. We suddenly became so disorganized and our mind is in chaos. When we’re depressed, some of us pour all the despair we’re going trough by eating that’s why we gained so much weight and became obese. Or we became too melancholic and forgot to eat and became anorexic. But kidding aside, even how much we want to forget the pain, it will just become an echoing voice that keeps coming back our mind and that we just can’t keep it from shutting up. We cry and became so regretful.

                        Even how much that person wants to claim our trust back, we just can’t give it back immediately. We may forgive them but it’s actually very different unlike before. We wanted to trust them but we just can’t help ourselves from having some doubt upon them. Trusting them again would be so hard to do. We don’t want to get hurt again that’s why we’ve became very careful.

                        If everyone knows how to keep a good relationship the there would be no quarrels, chaotic minds trembling and leveling up their pride. Life would be worth living, smiles would be very visible to everybody, and love can be felt really..

I kept thinking .............

Well, as I was thinking about this all day long, I've come to realized that I should give a chance. Maybe this time, it would be another way around. However, if this given chance would still be useless and would still continue to hurt me, then, I think it would be time to stop the martyrdom.

Even how much you value the person, even how much affection you have for him/her, when we burst and explode it would be the end of everything.

I just hope they will not waste the chances that we're giving because there might come a time that regrets instead of happiness will take over unto them.

I've also come to realized that it's better not to deeply hold and rely to the affection you're feeling to someone, it's better to not give our all 100% love so that from the moment that an ending will take its place, it would not be that throbbing for us to let go.  

We should know how to handle things around us. We should not let it ruin our future plans, and we should not let those things govern us. Let yourself and God govern each and every step and decisions we make.

Don't just rely to other people because they might be a temporary persons in our life. They ought to teach us lesson and at the same time, hurt us. Someday, those temporary people in our life will go, leaving us unattended with memories so sweet. Memories that will keep hunting us 'till the midst of letting go takes place.

Let us learn from our mistake. We can give chances but if you think it's enough, it's enough! Let us say what we mean, and mean it! Let not others think that we're very easy, and we're not sticking into our own words. Respect them, and they will respect you back. As the saying goes,

"Do unto others what you want others do unto you..."

I want him out of my mind

I can't really understand why people will say that they love us but will just hurt us anyway. Sometimes, I wish I have never known them. I hate the feeling of being betrayed. Once I'm being hurt, I can't help but to doubt the person. I can't really give the full trust. As much as I wanted to give trust but I think it's too stupid if the history repeat itself. It might be better if I should just move on and  leave that hurtful memory behind and forget that person. 

"One must move on and let go because that will be the time true love will find its way.."